Now, I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger….. but if you’re taking this quiz, chances are good she might be. But hey, you never know? Let’s find out. If you dare….
Do your friends think she’s using you?
How well do you know her friends/family?
Does she often expect presents or surprises?
Does she keep up her share of the housework?
Does she have her own savings account?
Has she ever spent a large sum of money (yours, or from a joint account) without consulting you first?
Do you have a well-paying job?
Has your financial security taken a hit since the beginning of your relationship?
Does she work?
Do you feel like she’s using you?
Does she ever offer to pay for dates?
Do you feel loved and valued in your relationship?
Is She Using You?
Why are you even asking this question?
Are you blind? Because this girl is clearly not using you. In fact, we are having a hard time figuring out how this could be any clearer. Congrats to you, though! You’ve found a lady who is actually likes you for you and not you for your money. Is it your boyish charm or your god-like good looks? Is it your personality or your wit? Probably not, but it’s also certainly not your money! That’s a plus, right?
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Is She Using You?
No need to panic, but a conversation is probably past due
It doesn’t sound like she’s using you. However, be aware if you are not being played you are likely playing around with someone who likes to spend. And as you know, money issues can kill a relationship just as quickly. Chances are good that simply talking to her about your concerns will help resolve the issue. If not, seek out a financial advisor or seek out a polite way to end it.
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Is She Using You?
You give more than you take in this relationship.
She might be using you, but then again, it might just be a communication issue! Try having a conversation and addressing the issue straight-on. Include different ways she could make you feel less used and more appreciated. If that conversation doesn’t go well, chances are good that she’s actually just using you. Head for the hills and close those joint accounts.
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Is She Using You?
There’s a doormat with your name on it.
Yeah, she’s using you. There’s no way to dress-up this situation even with the way she spends money. With this bad news, there comes a silver lining, you now can see the problem as clearly as those over-inflated bills. Our advice: you should quickly distance yourself from her and check your credit score.
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